Be Love: Honour Your Feelings

by Tara Love Ismail on Saturday, 29 May 2010 at 02:40
Staying true to yourself is both in the best interest of you and the other person involved.
You listening to your feelings honors god within you, what you know is right and what you want to do.

However we are not always placed before people who are in touch with god within themselves so saying no when someone wants to hear yes is not often met with loving acceptance. Let go of your need to please and need to rescue people from their drama's, accept your desire to love. By removing the drama you hold back a lesson that needs to be learned. Only help when you FEEL it is right.

Anytime we feel pressure to do something I think it’s safe to assume that this person is disconnected from what God within them wants, what they truly want and what would truly benefit their higher good. They are acting from their fears, their needs, wants or ideals. Both big and small things, all are relevant. You giving in does them no favours, it may get you a smile or a thumbs up for being a good sport..

By you honoring your true feelings you are doing you both a great service. It is important to drill this in; that when we don’t feel like doing something – honoring this is a blessing for both parties. We need to see beyond the surface reactions of people, the fear reactions and not be shaken from our truth – the mutual truth that if it isn’t right for you it isn’t right for both of you. Whether the other person is aware of this or not, it doesn’t matter to love. Their resentment, anger, or disappointment in you is not real, you are serving god within them. Stop saying yes when you don’t want to. Trust yourself. Trust God within you. And know it is ALWAYS MUTUAL WHERE LOVE IS INVOLVED.

Stand strong in your truth, be courageous and honor god within you. EACH TIME YOU GO AGAINST YOUR FEELINGS, YOU GIVE AWAY A PIECE OF YOUR LIGHT, A PIECE OF GOD THAT WAS ALLOCATED TO YOU...the person whom you’ve given this light to will not benefit from it either, it is a loose-loose situation. For on a soul level, a heart level, no soul wants to be burdened with the guilt that they are carrying your light – because them in the physical took it from you or was willing to take it when you offered it. This ranges from small to big things, anything and everything, from flirting when you don’t want to, to lending someone money, lending your car, kissing someone etc.... any and everything you do, if your heart is not supporting the ‘energy transaction’ you are not honoring your truth and you are harming both yourself and the other in the non physical which will manifest in ugly ways in the physical.

The subconscious guilt will manifest as unhealthy addictions and habits’.

Trust and honor your feelings, listen to your heart and check in with it always, aim to align your heart and your mind so everything you do is from love... when there is harmony within, there will be harmony without.... every choice you make either supports or violates this harmony.

It is your choice always. Choose love or fear. Understand that being love isn’t always the easiest option but it is always the most beautiful and beneficial for all.

Be strong and courageous sweet angels of love

I See you

I Love You

Endlessly in AllWays

Tara


Love

Love adorns itself;
it seeks to prove inward joy by outward beauty.

Love does not claim possession,
but gives freedom.

Love is an endless mystery,
for it has nothing else to explain it.

Love's gift cannot be given,
it waits to be accepted.

Rabinath Tagore